Parenting in the Time of School Shootings

In my 20+ years of working within the public school system before retirement until now I saw school shootings go from random occurrences that no one heard about much before Columbine to common occurrences that happen almost every year. No amount of school security procedures has helped to stop school mass shootings as it as evidence has shown that no amount of training of school staff and students can combat weapons of mass destruction. But I admit to being bias.

Hope is all we have, as parents in a country whose leaders can’t be motivated by the slaughter of children in their classroom.

https://www.esquire.com/news-politics/a40183069/parenting-school-shootings/

The symbol of the Swastika and its 12,000-year-old history | Ancient Origins

It should surprise no one that the leadership of early 20th century Germany choose an ancient symbol with a positive message to use as the symbol of their cause. Sure time and defeat has determined that their quest was no more than another example of xenophobic genocide but to them it was a noble cause to restore them to their previous greatness.

But again why should their use of an ancient symbol be of no surprise; because throughout their history European Crusaders Conquerors Colonizers have long appropriated historically significant symbols, languages and knowledge (that which they could understand) into their culture and destroyed that of which they could not understand.

The swastika is a symbol that was used in the 20 thcentury by of one of the most hated men ever to have lived, a symbol that now represents the slaughter of millions of people and one of the most destructive wars on Earth. But Adolf Hitler was not the first to use this symbol. In fact, it was used as a positive and powerful symbol thousands of years before him, across many cultures and continents.

ttps://www.ancient-origins.net/myths-legends/symbol-swastika-and-its-12000-year-old-history-001312

Traveling While Muslim: The Case of the Exploding Chocolate – POLITICO Magazine

As a person of the African Diaspora I know how people in authority in this country can and do use the power of their position to intimidate and harass minorities. It’s not right but it happens all to often.

I’m a U.S. Citizen, an attorney. I understand American culture, the English language, and the law—and CBP still tried to intimidate me with lies and threats. Relatively speaking, I’m a lucky man. I share my story of profiling not for sympathy, but for two crucial reasons. First, people have rights and should know their rights. Second, people of color have a habit of not sharing our stories publicly. This isn’t my opinion; it’s fact: Hate crimes and discrimination incidents are severely underreported—making reform more difficult. If we want to ever be safe in this country, people of color and minorities in general must share our stories. But let’s revisit the deep irony of the CBP detaining and repeatedly harassing me on suspected terrorism claims.

I know from experience that if I tell CBP up front that I’m a civil rights lawyer, they’ll let me go in a flash. As a general rule, I don’t—because it’s not fair. I shouldn’t have to be a lawyer to get equal treatment under the law. I travel internationally six to eight times per year, and it doesn’t surprise me to get stopped at least half of those times. Every time I mention I’m a lawyer, they release me immediately. Funny how that works—they know they’re illegally profiling me because of my name, skin color or religion. As all this flashed through my mind I looked directly at the supervising CBP officer and said, “I’m a civil rights lawyer with expertise on racial and religious discrimination and profiling.” Womp, womp.

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https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2018/08/11/traveling-while-muslim-the-case-of-the-exploding-chocolate-219347

Marriage health effects: physical and mental changes – Business Insider

Researchers have identified a variety of trends that show how getting married changes people. There has historically been an idea that marriage is good for your physical and mental health, perhaps due to the idea that having a supportive partner can make a person healthier. But more recent research has revealed that the relationship between marriage, health, and well-being is more complicated, with both benefits and drawbacks.

http://www.businessinsider.com/marriage-health-effects-2018-6

KKK priest: President Reagan comforted black family who had a cross burned on their lawn – The Washington Post

WHEN PRIESTS SIN

The Butlers had been newlyweds when they bought the house in 1976. They were the fifth black family to move into the neighborhood. They had lived there for five months when, on Jan. 30, 1977, the Klan burned the cross on their front lawn.

William Aitcheson, then a University of Maryland student and “exalted cyclops” of a Ku Klux Klan lodge, was charged with burning crosses at the Butlers and five other properties, including a synagogue, and sending a death threat to Coretta Scott King, the widow of the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr.

But by the time a federal judge ordered Aitcheson, who had been convicted and sentenced to 90 days of jail, to pay the Butlers $23,000 in civil damages, his whereabouts were unknown, according to the 1982 Post story that President Reagan read. President Reagan was so moved by the story that he and the First Lady went to visit the Butlers at home.

This week (August 2017), Aitcheson re-emerged in an astonishing way. Now a Catholic priest, he published a personal essay about his involvement with the Klan and the cross burnings, calling his own actions “despicable.”

The Catholic Church stood behind him saying, “There have been no accusations of racism or bigotry against Fr. Aitcheson throughout his time in the Diocese of Arlington.” But they are clear in not reporting, no reports of incidents since he was ordained (December 1988).

According to an investigation by journalist Nate Thayer Aitcheson’s truth and path to redemption isn’t as clean as it’s poytrayed. http://www.nate-thayer.com/kkk-terrorist-turned-priest-now-using-pulpit-political-extremism/

Thayer reports; Aitcheson and the Catholic Diocese of Arlington, Virginia tried to craft a public relations portrait of a low profile pastor who had experienced a conversion after his youthful indiscretions in the KKK who had left his bigotry and political extremism in his past when he was welcomed into the priesthood.

But a closer examination of Aitcheson’s 29 years as a priest tells a different story–a story of a still high-profile priest-activist.

Diocesan and other records show that after his ordination as a priest, William “Father Bill”” Aitcheson remained an outspoken political activist on issues of abortion, homosexuality, and racial issues and has continued to promote the just cause of the confederacy during the civil war.

In May of 1992, when Los Angeles police officers were acquitted of the beating of Rodney King sparking widespread rioting, Aitcheson told his parishioners at St. Therese the Little Flower Church, according to the Reno Gazette Journal, “I can’t help think that the Rodney King verdict was motivated in some part because of the rise in crime, and most people want to see the police get tough.”

While a priest in Nevada Aitcheson was also on the board of and a spokesman for the Northern Nevada chapter of the Christian Action Council, a pro-life group then known for confrontational public demonstrations in front of clinics.

Records also show a string of incendiary letters from “Father Bill” Aitcheson to the editor published in the Reno Gazette Journal newspaper in 1992 and 1993 while he served as associate pastor at the St Therese Church of the Little Flower in Reno.

Aitcheson wrote that “the so-called ‘pro choice advocates’” were “callously forsaking human life” to “build their political power base on the corpses of America’s future,” adding to “kill one’s own pre born child by abortion is a political act…”

Also during 1992-93, that five year period after Aitcheson was ordained a catholic priest, he was accused of assault and battery charged and convicted of trespassing in Nevada while protesting at medical clinics that provide abortion services.
Aitcheson’s conduct at the West End abortion clinic so angered some residents in Reno that they held a highly publicized demonstration in front of his St Theresa of the Little Flower church in November 1992 while Aitcheson was awaiting trial. “It’s a very sad, feeble attempt at attacking the church. The Roman Catholic church supports the sanctity of life at all stages,” Aitcheson told reporters at the time.
Within months of Aitcheson’s conviction in Reno, he quietly was transferred to the Catholic diocese of Arlington Virginia. In August, the Diocese of Reno said it could not confirm whether the incident was why Aitcheson was moved to the Arlington, Va., diocese. “Nothing in his files explains the decision to move,” said Reno diocese spokesperson Rev. Robert W. Chorey. Chorey said in a later interview Aitcheson was transferred “at his request.”

Not surprising Aitcheson continue some of his previous questionable behaviors, sermons and idolatry in Virginia. Also as a footnote it should be mentioned that Aitcheson never apologized or paid restitution to the Butlers. Although payments where sent to the Butlers from the Catholic Diocese of Arlington. Aitcheson took a leave of absence but it is more than probable that he is still with the Catholic Church.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/retropolis/wp/2017/08/27/the-day-president-reagan-comforted-a-black-family-who-had-a-kkk-cross-burned-on-their-lawn/?noredirect=on&utm_term=.5d92cd155568

Sexual Healing: Inside the World of Medically Assisted Sex – VICE Video: Documentaries, Films, News Videos

Sexual Healing: Inside the World of Medically Assisted Sex

For people with physical disabilities, issues with sexual function, or a total lack of experience, the path to getting off can be isolating and just plain awkward. However, a group of sex surrogates have pioneered a radical hands-on approach called “medically assisted sexuality” to help fulfill the intimacy needs of people with handicaps.

What can “sex” be?

    • Masturbation
    • Kissing or making out
    • Petting/stroking/sexual massage
    • Breast or nipple stimulation
    • Frottage (partners rubbing their bodies against each other – usually with clothes on)
    • Mutual masturbation (masturbating with a partner)
    • Manual sex (like handjobs and fingering)
    • Oral sex
    • Vaginal sex
    • Using sex toys
    • Anal sex
    • Talking in a sexual way; sharing sexual fantasies; sexual role-playing
    • Cybersex, text sex, or phone sex (with or without masturbation)
    • …or something else entirely.

    Some of these activities are things people can do alone; others require another person.

    https://video.vice.com/en_us/video/sexual-healing-inside-the-world-of-medically-assisted-sex/57f53ec994999f4fb8a138e8?popular=1

    Teens Cyberbully Themselves As A New Type Of Self-Harm : Shots – Health News : NPR

    In a study of nearly 5,600 U.S. youths ages 12 to 17, about 6 percent say they’ve engaged in some sort of digital self-harm. More than half in that subgroup say they’ve bullied themselves this way more than once.

    Inflicting pain is what millions of Americans – particularly adolescents and young adults – do to themselves when they’re stressed.

    This is called nonsuicidal self-injury (NSSI), and it most commonly takes the form of cutting or burning the skin. Traditionally, many doctors, therapists, and family members have believed that people engage in NSSI primarily to manipulate others. However, recent research has found that such social factors only motivate a minority of cases and usually represent cries for help rather than coldhearted attempts to exploit caretakers. Although there are many reasons why people engage in this kind of self-injury, the most commonly reported reason is simple, if seemingly odd: to feel better. Several studies support the claim that self-inflicted pain can lead to feeling better.

    Recent research and clinical psychologists now suggest that some adolescents are engaging in a newer form of self-aggression — digital self-harm. They’re anonymously posting mean and derogatory comments about themselves on social media.

    Ancient Egyptian Incantations Tell of Biblical Human Sacrifice

    Did Abraham murder his son Isaac?

    “So Abraham returned unto his young men [waiting at the foot of the mountain], and they rose up and went together to Beersheba,” the text relates.

    That strange contradiction, Yoreh says, may be why a few ancient midrashim, or rabbinic homilies, also assumed Isaac had been killed.

    In one homily quoted by Rashi, the revered 11th-century French rabbi and commentator, “Isaac’s ashes are said to be suitable for repentance, just like the ashes of an [animal] sacrifice.”

    And Abraham stretched forth his hand, and took the knife to slay his son. Then the angel of the Lord called him from heaven- ‘Abraham! Abraham!’ and he answered, ‘Here am I.’ And he said, ‘Do not raise your hand against the boy, or do anything to him’. (Genesis 22-10-12)

    https://www.livescience.com/62324-ancient-egyptian-papyrus-biblical-human-sacrifice.html

    The Kanye West Delusion – The Ringer

    Kanye West remained defiant Wednesday amid mounting backlash from fans over the rapper’s positive words about President Donald Trump, tweeting a picture of himself wearing a “Make America Great Again” hat and criticizing former President Barack Obama.

    I don’t really like much rap and never really thought Kanye was top of the pack. My personal opinion was that Kanye’s mother was his sounding board prior to her death and that he would consult her about how he was presenting himself. (The only thing I can liken it to is the way individuals with intellectual disabilities and/or autism didn’t really understand social cues.) Since his mother’s death and as his wife’s upbringing was unconventional I doubt that he currently has anyone to run his thoughts or plans by before speaking.

    “To the media trying to demonize my husband let me just say this… your commentary on Kanye being erratic & his tweets being disturbing is actually scary. So quick to label him as having mental health issues for just being himself when he has always been expressive is not fair,” she said, kicking off a series of tweets.

    Kardashian West praised her husband for explaining his business decision to get rid of his manager and some attorneys, and also talked about his politics and further chided the media for questioning his sanity.

    https://www.theringer.com/music/2018/4/25/17282602/kanye-west-donald-trump-twitter